JoJo Siwa credited Demi Lovato with playing a vital role in her “gay awakening,” all thanks to one of the Grammy nominee’s music videos. Demi Lovato has an announcement for the world: she is queer — and not just queer, but “really queer.”. In a new Glamour cover story, Lovato opened up about her life post-split from Max Ehrich, who she was previously engaged to for two shambhalafundacion.org addition to granting her the time and space to really figure out what she wants and needs from life, the breakup also helped Lovato accept some. JoJo Siwa chatted with Demi Lovato about her sexuality and even revealed that her first 'gay awakening' was seeing Jenna Dewan on a episode of Lip Sync Battle. The year-old multihyphenate.